Divorcing a Toxic Person
February 10th, 2018
There is nothing more horrifying than being on the other side of a toxic person while going through a divorce. You will have never witnessed how deeply ruthless they can actually be, until you divorce them. This is horrifying because you had probably assumed you’d seen them at their worst while married; sadly, not. These types will use the family court system as leverage against you. Most of the time, the toxic person will end up with unearned money, more custody of the children than they deserve, and they often get away with charming attorney’s, psychologists and judges. Many other professionals are people who aren’t well-educated on toxic people and the financial and emotional abuse they put us and our children through. The best thing you can do is document absolutely anything and everything. Your documentation of their behaviors, lack of follow through, hiding of monies, and other things like flaking out on seeing their children on their custodial times. This allows you to show their patterns, but you must do this secretly and privately. The more you fight with these people, sadly, the more you stand to lose. Hang in for what is rightly yours and force yourself to let go of the rest. If they were selfish and unfair in the marriage, they will be even more unfair and selfish throughout a divorce.
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Divorcing a Toxic Person
February 10th, 2018
There is nothing more horrifying than being on the other side of a toxic person while going through a divorce. You will have never witnessed how deeply ruthless they can actually be, until you divorce them. This is horrifying because you had probably assumed you’d seen them at their worst while married; sadly, not. These types will use the family court system as leverage against you. Most of the time, the toxic person will end up with unearned money, more custody of the children than they deserve, and they often get away with charming attorney’s, psychologists and judges. Many other professionals are people who aren’t well-educated on toxic people and the financial and emotional abuse they put us and our children through. The best thing you can do is document absolutely anything and everything. Your documentation of their behaviors, lack of follow through, hiding of monies, and other things like flaking out on seeing their children on their custodial times. This allows you to show their patterns, but you must do this secretly and privately. The more you fight with these people, sadly, the more you stand to lose. Hang in for what is rightly yours and force yourself to let go of the rest. If they were selfish and unfair in the marriage, they will be even more unfair and selfish throughout a divorce.
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Divorcing a Toxic Person
February 10th, 2018
There is nothing more horrifying than being on the other side of a toxic person while going through a divorce. You will have never witnessed how deeply ruthless they can actually be, until you divorce them. This is horrifying because you had probably assumed you’d seen them at their worst while married; sadly, not. These types will use the family court system as leverage against you. Most of the time, the toxic person will end up with unearned money, more custody of the children than they deserve, and they often get away with charming attorney’s, psychologists and judges. Many other professionals are people who aren’t well-educated on toxic people and the financial and emotional abuse they put us and our children through. The best thing you can do is document absolutely anything and everything. Your documentation of their behaviors, lack of follow through, hiding of monies, and other things like flaking out on seeing their children on their custodial times. This allows you to show their patterns, but you must do this secretly and privately. The more you fight with these people, sadly, the more you stand to lose. Hang in for what is rightly yours and force yourself to let go of the rest. If they were selfish and unfair in the marriage, they will be even more unfair and selfish throughout a divorce.
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