Trust Your Gut
May 2nd, 2018
When our gut starts to send off signals that things aren’t right in our lives and in our relationships, we save ourselves a lot of time by listening and starting to make our way out of the chaos. At some point we have to stop waiting for the pain to get worse in order to finally accept the reality that the relationship or relationships we’re in are toxic. How bad are we going to let things get before we decide we’re more important than the person who is causing us so much pain? How is it that we let their demands, threats and victimized manipulations become so all-consuming that we begin to feel like the less important person in the relationship? We need to do all we can not to wait for the pain they cause us to get so bad that we totally lose who we are and what we stand for. We were a strong person before them, and we will become an even stronger person after them, but we can’t know that until we get ourselves out, cut all contact and get through the recovery process. As we heal, we will come to see that will have learned enough to never allow ourselves to be manipulated like that again.
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Trust Your Gut
May 2nd, 2018
When our gut starts to send off signals that things aren’t right in our lives and in our relationships, we save ourselves a lot of time by listening and starting to make our way out of the chaos. At some point we have to stop waiting for the pain to get worse in order to finally accept the reality that the relationship or relationships we’re in are toxic. How bad are we going to let things get before we decide we’re more important than the person who is causing us so much pain? How is it that we let their demands, threats and victimized manipulations become so all-consuming that we begin to feel like the less important person in the relationship? We need to do all we can not to wait for the pain they cause us to get so bad that we totally lose who we are and what we stand for. We were a strong person before them, and we will become an even stronger person after them, but we can’t know that until we get ourselves out, cut all contact and get through the recovery process. As we heal, we will come to see that will have learned enough to never allow ourselves to be manipulated like that again.
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Trust Your Gut
May 2nd, 2018
When our gut starts to send off signals that things aren’t right in our lives and in our relationships, we save ourselves a lot of time by listening and starting to make our way out of the chaos. At some point we have to stop waiting for the pain to get worse in order to finally accept the reality that the relationship or relationships we’re in are toxic. How bad are we going to let things get before we decide we’re more important than the person who is causing us so much pain? How is it that we let their demands, threats and victimized manipulations become so all-consuming that we begin to feel like the less important person in the relationship? We need to do all we can not to wait for the pain they cause us to get so bad that we totally lose who we are and what we stand for. We were a strong person before them, and we will become an even stronger person after them, but we can’t know that until we get ourselves out, cut all contact and get through the recovery process. As we heal, we will come to see that will have learned enough to never allow ourselves to be manipulated like that again.
To leave a comment about this post and for a more interactive experience, please like, follow, and join the conversation on my Facebook page.
