Take Your Time
May 4th, 2018
At some point, especially if you’ve been raised in a toxic family system, you have to stop searching for the good in people. You have to search for the truth, for what is real, for what their actions tell you. Good is often dressed in fake clothing. What is real is honest and proud, regardless of the scars. The truth is what you get when you look for what is real. It’s important to protect ourselves from manipulative people and to not give our trust up front. Trust is best developed when it has been earned through time. When we trust right away, we often get burned because we’ve trusted someone when we didn’t give ourselves the time to deeply know them, and now our secrets are with a person who lacks integrity and uses our pain against us for manipulation. The healthiest way to enter into any relationship, is to take your time.
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Take Your Time
May 4th, 2018
At some point, especially if you’ve been raised in a toxic family system, you have to stop searching for the good in people. You have to search for the truth, for what is real, for what their actions tell you. Good is often dressed in fake clothing. What is real is honest and proud, regardless of the scars. The truth is what you get when you look for what is real. It’s important to protect ourselves from manipulative people and to not give our trust up front. Trust is best developed when it has been earned through time. When we trust right away, we often get burned because we’ve trusted someone when we didn’t give ourselves the time to deeply know them, and now our secrets are with a person who lacks integrity and uses our pain against us for manipulation. The healthiest way to enter into any relationship, is to take your time.
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Take Your Time
May 4th, 2018
At some point, especially if you’ve been raised in a toxic family system, you have to stop searching for the good in people. You have to search for the truth, for what is real, for what their actions tell you. Good is often dressed in fake clothing. What is real is honest and proud, regardless of the scars. The truth is what you get when you look for what is real. It’s important to protect ourselves from manipulative people and to not give our trust up front. Trust is best developed when it has been earned through time. When we trust right away, we often get burned because we’ve trusted someone when we didn’t give ourselves the time to deeply know them, and now our secrets are with a person who lacks integrity and uses our pain against us for manipulation. The healthiest way to enter into any relationship, is to take your time.
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