You Have To Love Yourself
May 17th, 2018
We cannot make another person happy. We can make a person smile, we can make them feel better and we can do what we can to soothe and support them, but we do not have the power to make them happy. If a person isn’t happy, we have no control over that. We cannot fill the holes inside of them. Unhappy people do all they can to put us in a position of responsibility when it comes their happiness. They put pressure on us and make sure that we know in every single way that we are missing the mark; thereby, pulling us away from loving ourselves, taking care of ourselves and debilitating our self-worth. We cannot take on the responsibility of making other people happy in who they are or in their lives. We need to push back on these demands, set the boundaries which serve to protect us and let other people know that if they want to be happy, if they want to feel good inside they need to cultivate that on their own. You must love yourself. This is all of us. We must love ourselves to have anything of value to offer anyone else.
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You Have To Love Yourself
May 17th, 2018
We cannot make another person happy. We can make a person smile, we can make them feel better and we can do what we can to soothe and support them, but we do not have the power to make them happy. If a person isn’t happy, we have no control over that. We cannot fill the holes inside of them. Unhappy people do all they can to put us in a position of responsibility when it comes their happiness. They put pressure on us and make sure that we know in every single way that we are missing the mark; thereby, pulling us away from loving ourselves, taking care of ourselves and debilitating our self-worth. We cannot take on the responsibility of making other people happy in who they are or in their lives. We need to push back on these demands, set the boundaries which serve to protect us and let other people know that if they want to be happy, if they want to feel good inside they need to cultivate that on their own. You must love yourself. This is all of us. We must love ourselves to have anything of value to offer anyone else.
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You Have To Love Yourself
May 17th, 2018
We cannot make another person happy. We can make a person smile, we can make them feel better and we can do what we can to soothe and support them, but we do not have the power to make them happy. If a person isn’t happy, we have no control over that. We cannot fill the holes inside of them. Unhappy people do all they can to put us in a position of responsibility when it comes their happiness. They put pressure on us and make sure that we know in every single way that we are missing the mark; thereby, pulling us away from loving ourselves, taking care of ourselves and debilitating our self-worth. We cannot take on the responsibility of making other people happy in who they are or in their lives. We need to push back on these demands, set the boundaries which serve to protect us and let other people know that if they want to be happy, if they want to feel good inside they need to cultivate that on their own. You must love yourself. This is all of us. We must love ourselves to have anything of value to offer anyone else.
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