The “Need Meeter”
June 20th, 2018
Toxic people want everyone to fix everything for them. They desire to put very little work into their relationship but they expect a huge return from us. They expect us to fix their problems, to constantly be at their beck at call but any time we need them they flake, have an excuse or get mad that we have any sort of need of our own. These types of people cannot entertain themselves. They need for us to do all the caretaking, planning and labor of the relationship, and yet we are never appreciated or rewarded for our efforts. This is not love. This is parenting an adult child. The first responsibility for you to take care of in your life is you. There is no amount of love or effort that satisfies a toxic person, They are gluttonous people who only demand more. The more you give, the more they demand. Eventually you end up giving yourself away. Love yourself better than to do that. Learn when your giving turns into emotional slavery.
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The “Need Meeter”
June 20th, 2018
Toxic people want everyone to fix everything for them. They desire to put very little work into their relationship but they expect a huge return from us. They expect us to fix their problems, to constantly be at their beck at call but any time we need them they flake, have an excuse or get mad that we have any sort of need of our own. These types of people cannot entertain themselves. They need for us to do all the caretaking, planning and labor of the relationship, and yet we are never appreciated or rewarded for our efforts. This is not love. This is parenting an adult child. The first responsibility for you to take care of in your life is you. There is no amount of love or effort that satisfies a toxic person, They are gluttonous people who only demand more. The more you give, the more they demand. Eventually you end up giving yourself away. Love yourself better than to do that. Learn when your giving turns into emotional slavery.
To leave a comment about this post and for a more interactive experience, please like, follow, and join the conversation on my Facebook page.
The “Need Meeter”
June 20th, 2018
Toxic people want everyone to fix everything for them. They desire to put very little work into their relationship but they expect a huge return from us. They expect us to fix their problems, to constantly be at their beck at call but any time we need them they flake, have an excuse or get mad that we have any sort of need of our own. These types of people cannot entertain themselves. They need for us to do all the caretaking, planning and labor of the relationship, and yet we are never appreciated or rewarded for our efforts. This is not love. This is parenting an adult child. The first responsibility for you to take care of in your life is you. There is no amount of love or effort that satisfies a toxic person, They are gluttonous people who only demand more. The more you give, the more they demand. Eventually you end up giving yourself away. Love yourself better than to do that. Learn when your giving turns into emotional slavery.
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