Monday Mindset: No Contact
June 20th, 2018
Just because we’ve cut ties with some significant people in our lives doesn’t mean we have done anything cruel to them. We never cut ties to harm someone else, we cut ties to love and protect ourselves. Toxic people, on the other hand, go silent to hurt and to provoke us into chasing them. When we choose to cut ties with these people, the difference is that we have no desire to have them back. We go silent to stay silent. We have, over probably many years of emotional pain, tried to make things work with these types and have come to accept there is no changing these people. Our hope and continued efforts will not change them. The change that needs to happen isn’t about them. It is about us loving ourselves enough to stop allowing them to manipulate and terrorize our lives any more. We can only do that through No Contact.
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Monday Mindset: No Contact
June 20th, 2018
Just because we’ve cut ties with some significant people in our lives doesn’t mean we have done anything cruel to them. We never cut ties to harm someone else, we cut ties to love and protect ourselves. Toxic people, on the other hand, go silent to hurt and to provoke us into chasing them. When we choose to cut ties with these people, the difference is that we have no desire to have them back. We go silent to stay silent. We have, over probably many years of emotional pain, tried to make things work with these types and have come to accept there is no changing these people. Our hope and continued efforts will not change them. The change that needs to happen isn’t about them. It is about us loving ourselves enough to stop allowing them to manipulate and terrorize our lives any more. We can only do that through No Contact.
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Monday Mindset: No Contact
June 20th, 2018
Just because we’ve cut ties with some significant people in our lives doesn’t mean we have done anything cruel to them. We never cut ties to harm someone else, we cut ties to love and protect ourselves. Toxic people, on the other hand, go silent to hurt and to provoke us into chasing them. When we choose to cut ties with these people, the difference is that we have no desire to have them back. We go silent to stay silent. We have, over probably many years of emotional pain, tried to make things work with these types and have come to accept there is no changing these people. Our hope and continued efforts will not change them. The change that needs to happen isn’t about them. It is about us loving ourselves enough to stop allowing them to manipulate and terrorize our lives any more. We can only do that through No Contact.
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