How To Deal With Judgement
June 20th, 2018
People who do not understand that toxic can be mothers, fathers, children, grandparents etc. will judge you in a negative light. It may not be that they think you’re a bad person, but they hold a belief that all things between people can find resolve and eventually work out. This is only true amongst healthy people. Toxic people use our forgiveness to further manipulate and abuse us. Once we forgive, they get the message that they can push their manipulating even further the next time. There is no need to further our hurt, and nor do we owe any person who hasn’t walked a mile in our shoes an explanation for the relationship decisions we’ve been forced to make. Life is not life at all if we’re having to justify insanity to stay in relationships.
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How To Deal With Judgement
June 20th, 2018
People who do not understand that toxic can be mothers, fathers, children, grandparents etc. will judge you in a negative light. It may not be that they think you’re a bad person, but they hold a belief that all things between people can find resolve and eventually work out. This is only true amongst healthy people. Toxic people use our forgiveness to further manipulate and abuse us. Once we forgive, they get the message that they can push their manipulating even further the next time. There is no need to further our hurt, and nor do we owe any person who hasn’t walked a mile in our shoes an explanation for the relationship decisions we’ve been forced to make. Life is not life at all if we’re having to justify insanity to stay in relationships.
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How To Deal With Judgement
June 20th, 2018
People who do not understand that toxic can be mothers, fathers, children, grandparents etc. will judge you in a negative light. It may not be that they think you’re a bad person, but they hold a belief that all things between people can find resolve and eventually work out. This is only true amongst healthy people. Toxic people use our forgiveness to further manipulate and abuse us. Once we forgive, they get the message that they can push their manipulating even further the next time. There is no need to further our hurt, and nor do we owe any person who hasn’t walked a mile in our shoes an explanation for the relationship decisions we’ve been forced to make. Life is not life at all if we’re having to justify insanity to stay in relationships.
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